sisters should be seen in a better light

as i get excited more and more about NYC's Pride parade which is right around the corner, and as i try to find a date for it as well lol almost everyday my mailbox at yahoo is filled with tons of questions and hate mail dealing the thr black transsexual woman. i really notice a lot of guys that are instreted in getting into a relationship with a TS woman and i also notice the few that of course that are a wolf in sheep's clothing( they use the "s" word instead of TS, asking what their favorite sexual positions, etc) and i try my best to educate at lease ten to 20 men everyday, good or bad, and let them know what a sister really wants. sometimes it's a little hard because some of these guys on on craigslist and backpage and look through the escorts ads and figure, well all TS women are like that, which i have to tell them no, that's not true and some ask why they do it and i tell them, 9 times out of 10 it's to get the bills paid, some hate their jobs some do it while trying to maintain a relationship or even marriage, which a lot of times leaves the man feeling like either he's a free john or with him leaving because i can't think or know too manby men that would like other men having sex with their mates other than them and then cheating becaomes invilved because he wants to seek confort with another woman. god did not put me here to judge anyone at all, so i don't. i wish i could say the same for other "men" lol. some only see you sisters' bodies and want that without getting to know your minds and i know some of the nicest TS women in the world that put up with a lot of crap, i know some that like to tease but they do that for their boyfriends and and the man that they're feeling. i know some that just deserve nothing but happiness.but with porn and craigslist out there, again too many men see you ladies in the wrong light. one guy even told me i was dumb for sticking up for all of you and for misspelling the group's name( i told him instead of two "s"s they combine into one with both males and transsexual women because one as friends and then some). that doesn't bother me, i'm use to that. what does bother me is how YOU sisters are seen and what you have to put up with. i will not give up with the social network, bloging, and groups( and i've got one more thing up my sleeve), this is a dream i've have for years and i was told from the start it would not work. well, judging from all of you here in each place i beg to differ. every conference, parade, or any function i attend i feel like i'm representing this place where you are reading this right now. so i will keep it up and i hope keep gaining more respect for you ladies, it's not about me, it's about changing other people's mind about you and how your light is better and brighter than anything they will ever see. but also make no mistake, it is also not about make you ladies not seeming like you are all something that you are not, i always say if you can't accept the ladies for who they are then keep it moving, it's not like a reality show where you get voted off for not being liked, hey that's life not everyone is going to like you for who you are, but i also try to keep a positive light for all of those sisters just starting their transition and not knowing where to go or who to talk to and also learning that there are role models for here to look up to. maybe it's you.